Questions, questions and more questions! They are the most interesting thing that we can ask when we are on a first date with someone. You just have to be careful not to overdo it and turn it into an interview! Questions are the best way to get to know someone and show them we are interested in them. On a first date you just have to be careful not to overdo it and turn it into an interview!
Dale Carnegie in his timeless bestselling book, "How to win friends and influence people" shares about the amazing power of asking interesting questions to show that we are interested in someone else.
Have you been to a party and been the one asking all the questions and doing all the listening? If you have, you will most likely agree that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting. You probably did less that 20% of the speaking but you got 100% of the credit!
If you're a guy and ask some great questions, you will often find yourself jumping to last-base, thus saving yourself a lot of legwork trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and listening is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do to anyone.
If you are a lady and want to stroke a guy's ego and make him feel good then ask lots of interesting questions and then listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a string from there on!
Despite the ego-stroking that can happen, if you ask and listen there is also a genuine side to the picture as well. Because the people who are genuinely interested in someone else and ask great questions are the people who are always popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.
Here are 21 questions to ask to get the conversation rolling. They have been written from a female perspective, just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions - which are always better.
Here's 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl to get you started
1. If you are working as a waiter and one of your customers was really rude, would you spit in their soup or even think to do this?
2. What was your favourite cartoon character as a kid and why did you enjoy them?
3. If you were to choose five people to invite to dinner - real of fictional - who would you invite and why?
4. If you could become the invisible man, where would you go and what would you do when you got there?
5. If someone were to make a comedy show about part of your life, which part would they script and what would be found in the script?
6. What was your most favourite television character when you were a child? What did you like about them and why?
8. What do you regret not doing the most in your life?
8. What's the most hilarious experience you've had in your entire life?
9. Have you ever gone on a date with someone who is so much taller or smaller than you, and if so how did you get on kissing?
10. How old were you when you had your first proper date and did you kiss them?
11. What was the worst lie you have ever told in your life? Did you get caught out?
12. If you were suddenly turned into a woman for a day, how would you spend that day?
13. If you do not like someone do you show it or pretend that you like them?
14. Which do you prefer the most in a woman - intelligence, a good body or good looks?
Time to get a little more personal!
15. Have you ever been caught stark naked in a public place - if so what were you doing?
16. What's the difference between sex and making love and which do you prefer?
17. If you could suddenly change the age you lost your virginity, would you?
18. What's your biggest sexual 'turn-ons' and 'turn-offs'?
19. Have you ever been unfaithful to your partner and did they find out? If so, what happened?
20. Has anyone ever caught you touching yourself sexually? If they did what did you do?
21. Have you ever had sex with more than one woman at a time? - 20763
Dale Carnegie in his timeless bestselling book, "How to win friends and influence people" shares about the amazing power of asking interesting questions to show that we are interested in someone else.
Have you been to a party and been the one asking all the questions and doing all the listening? If you have, you will most likely agree that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting. You probably did less that 20% of the speaking but you got 100% of the credit!
If you're a guy and ask some great questions, you will often find yourself jumping to last-base, thus saving yourself a lot of legwork trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and listening is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do to anyone.
If you are a lady and want to stroke a guy's ego and make him feel good then ask lots of interesting questions and then listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a string from there on!
Despite the ego-stroking that can happen, if you ask and listen there is also a genuine side to the picture as well. Because the people who are genuinely interested in someone else and ask great questions are the people who are always popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.
Here are 21 questions to ask to get the conversation rolling. They have been written from a female perspective, just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions - which are always better.
Here's 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl to get you started
1. If you are working as a waiter and one of your customers was really rude, would you spit in their soup or even think to do this?
2. What was your favourite cartoon character as a kid and why did you enjoy them?
3. If you were to choose five people to invite to dinner - real of fictional - who would you invite and why?
4. If you could become the invisible man, where would you go and what would you do when you got there?
5. If someone were to make a comedy show about part of your life, which part would they script and what would be found in the script?
6. What was your most favourite television character when you were a child? What did you like about them and why?
8. What do you regret not doing the most in your life?
8. What's the most hilarious experience you've had in your entire life?
9. Have you ever gone on a date with someone who is so much taller or smaller than you, and if so how did you get on kissing?
10. How old were you when you had your first proper date and did you kiss them?
11. What was the worst lie you have ever told in your life? Did you get caught out?
12. If you were suddenly turned into a woman for a day, how would you spend that day?
13. If you do not like someone do you show it or pretend that you like them?
14. Which do you prefer the most in a woman - intelligence, a good body or good looks?
Time to get a little more personal!
15. Have you ever been caught stark naked in a public place - if so what were you doing?
16. What's the difference between sex and making love and which do you prefer?
17. If you could suddenly change the age you lost your virginity, would you?
18. What's your biggest sexual 'turn-ons' and 'turn-offs'?
19. Have you ever been unfaithful to your partner and did they find out? If so, what happened?
20. Has anyone ever caught you touching yourself sexually? If they did what did you do?
21. Have you ever had sex with more than one woman at a time? - 20763
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